As a 33-year-old married man with two boys, I have navigated the intricate waters of relationships, including a brief foray into polyamory. Through this journey, I’ve come to realize that cheating is not merely defined by the act itself, but by the dishonesty and disrespect that accompanies it. When partners mutually agree to see other people, it’s not considered cheating. However, it becomes a betrayal when established boundaries are violated. In this article, I will delve into the complex question: why do some people cheat? Drawing from personal experiences, psychological insights, and cultural perspectives, we will explore the myriad factors that contribute to infidelity in relationships.